Norman Shane Alder

 September 3, 1973 – November 19, 2025
Melba, Idaho

Life & Legacy
Norman Shane Alder, a beloved husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully at his home in Melba, Idaho, on November 19, 2025, after courageously battling cancer for three and a half years. He was 52 years old.

Born on September 3, 1973, in Nampa, Idaho, to Norman Craig Alder and Kathryn Etta Rosier Alder, Shane was the second of six children and was raised in Melba—a place that shaped his faith, work ethic, and love for the land. At just 13 years old, Shane earned the rank of Eagle Scout, an early reflection of his drive, character, and quiet determination.

Education & Marriage
A proud graduate of Melba High School, Shane continued his education at Utah State University, where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Animal Science. While attending USU, he met the love of his life, Becky, at a church gathering. The two were sealed for time and all eternity on November 7, 1998, in the Salt Lake Temple of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Together, Shane and Becky built a beautiful life rooted in love, faith, family, and hard work.

Faith & Service
Shane’s testimony of Jesus Christ guided every aspect of his life. He served a two-year mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Dallas, Texas, where he touched many lives through his humility and compassion.

In his home ward, he served in numerous callings—including as first counselor in the Warren Spur Ward bishopric at the time of his passing. His gentle leadership and selfless service blessed his family, friends, and all who knew him.

Shane also dedicated time to his community as a board member of the Farm Bureau, advocating for local agriculture and rural families. His love for farming wasn’t just a profession—it was a calling.

Passions & Personality
Shane was happiest outdoors—working the land, tending to his cattle, flying, hunting, or spending time with family. He had a passion for music, often singing in men’s church groups and occasionally playing the piano or guitar.

Just before his second cancer diagnosis, Shane achieved one of his dreams—earning his pilot’s license.

Known for his quick wit, easy laughter, and ever-present smile, Shane could bring light to any room. He had a way of making people feel seen, valued, and at peace. His humility, humor, and endless patience made him a trusted friend and a deeply loved member of the Melba community.

Family
Shane is survived by his devoted wife, Becky Alder; his loving parents, Norman Craig and Kathryn Alder; and his cherished children:

• Madyson Treasure (Ryan)
• Carson Alder
• Connor Alder
• Maycee Alder

He is also survived by his siblings:

• Michelle (Curtis) Kofoed
• Tamara (Greg) Strikwerda
• Melissa (Mike) Murray
• Joshua (Melinda) Alder
• Heidi (John†) Parish

He was preceded in death by his brother-in-law, John Robert Parish.

Service Information
Viewing:
Friday, November 28, 2025 | 6:00 – 8:00 p.m.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
112 Randolph Dr., Melba, Idaho

Funeral Service:
Saturday, November 29, 2025 | 11:00 a.m.
Viewing prior to the service from 10:00 – 10:45 a.m.
at the same location.

All who knew Shane or were touched by his kindness are warmly invited to attend.

Legacy
Shane Alder will be remembered for his faith, humor, love of family, and unwavering service to others. His devotion to his community, his deep love for the land, and his ability to find joy—even in hardship—left an indelible mark on everyone who knew him.

He lived fully, loved deeply, and served quietly. His legacy will continue to inspire through every act of kindness, every field tilled, and every bowl of ice cream enjoyed in his honor.